How to Prevent Your Teenager from Becoming Interested in Drugs and Alcohol
If you are a father of even young children you can think, why do I read this article, if my child is still small? For he is wrong and if they should be working on his prevention and what better than doing it since he was young, that is when, in those first 7 years of life, character, his personality, and values are formed, as well as creating important ties for his whole life. How will we manage the arrival of adolescence and all that brings with it this period: permits, late departures, new friends, the first bride, the first ect parties? These are issues that concern parents.
Today's family has less and less communication, technology and, in turn, the absence of parents at home, endanger the father-child relationship.
RECORDAR QUE CADA HIJO TIENEN SU PROPIA PERSONALIDAD.
Each child is different from the other, some are more shy, others are very sociable and extroverted, others are more poorly geniously, others very quiet, but while their temperaments must be respected we must not allow them to overdo them. Try to dialogue about your strengths and support you in improving your weaknesses You are a guide to your child not a punishment. You are your guide and master of emotions.. Think: How do I handle my emotions? Will I be a good example to follow for my children?
LA IMPORTANCIA DE FORMAR EL CARÁCTER EN SU HIJO.
Give a child everything he asks, please him or her in his or her wishes or the contrary: to be very strict with them, punishing and almost that you are the one who decides everything for them, it is not recommended when it comes to educating, you must seek a midpoint, a balance between love, understanding but also demanding them to be responsible, independent and respectful. Always try to praise their good behavior in them rather than criticize them, there are parents who are criticizing them all day and this makes them create a self-image of evil and unloved by anyone. Teach him from young people who are collaborators, help to wash the dishes on weekends when the employee is not there, save his clothes, do his tasks, teach them to treat each other at home kindly, learn to solve problems, both parents must set clear limits and rules, this creates a safe and clear environment for all. A house where there are no rules, everyone does what he wants or one day if there are rules but another day there is no, it's a confusing, weak environment. It's like for a soldier to go to war without weapons, without clarity, not a map or a captain to follow.
MI HIJO ES ADOLESCENTE Y NO TENGO BUENA COMUNICACIÓN CON EL.
If your child is already between the ages of 13 and 17 and has no good relationship with the family, you must do a PARE and check well what has happened with communication, which is what I, as a father or mother more I tell you (shouts, regains, threats, I speak ill of him, I criticize him), remember that the HYJOS ARE REFLEJO OF YOUR PADRES, so we must look at that we have sown from little ones in the relationship: if I have sowed shouts, punishment, insults, criticism do not expect to have a pink garden in adolescence. I urgently recommend making an EMOTIONS RESCATE, talk to your son (a) ask him for forgiveness the times you have offended him and tell him how bad he feels about it, that you love him immensely and reconstruct new relationship day by day of respect.
¿PUEDO OFRECERLE A MI HIJO PROBAR LA CERVEZA O VINO?
No, it's like offering him a little bit more drugs, no... we have wrong beliefs about this liquor... it hurts liver, in an even immature brain, active dependence, it alters consciousness, think: the greater number of accidents happen by ingesting alcohol.... that belief that is better to try with dad is totally wrong, better to think about being a better model for his child than to see his or her own positive actions, and that he or she does not see it as a good thing that he or she does not see it as a good thing. It's hard to say that Dad and Mom never took, because we live in a society where everything is celebrated with liquor (baptizes, marriages, evenings, birthdays, degrees or a simple roast). Be careful, today you are activating in your child's brain the taste for liquor, tomorrow it will be easier for you to like other things too. It's a potential risk to your child's brain development.
QUE DICEN LOS MÉDICOS SOBRE ESTO:
Dr. Westley Clark, director of the Health Quality and Conductive Statistics Centre at the EU Directorate of Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services, says:
"Statistics show that children who start drinking at an earlier age have more problems later. We also know that, particularly men under 21, they are still developing what we call the executive function (which regulates how they make decisions and how they handle risk)," he explained.
"At 21, the brain is simply more mature and the ability to control the impulses is much greater. The legal age is 21 years. The message to parents is to earn time and delay the appearance of any consumption."
Try at an early age the liquor is associated with "greater alcohol consumption as children grow up", the will of parents to deal with the issue is often the key to avoiding problems. It's not enough to just tell them: It is not good to take, if you do not talk to him since he is a child who makes alcohol in the body, as a person can see when taking the deaths that cause him to lose consciousness. I advise more dialogue and preventive teachings, remember that you are your child's (student) life master. With your little son, the same thing happens when we expose him to managing GOOGLE without CONTROL, it's like letting go of Dad's car at an early age.
MAL EJEMPLO..
Very careful to be one of the parents who gives bad example of all weekends drinking beer or any liquor to get drunk or worse to break up at home and assault their mother or friends, many children ask why their dad gets weird when he drinks beer? Or do you get more cheerful? That liquor will make me happy. I want to try it to be more funny or give me security.
Ask yourself, is this what I want for my son? Do I want my son to do what I do when he's older? The best way to educate a child is by the good example.
HÁBLELE SOBRE LOS EFECTOS DEL CIGARRILLO Y ALCOCHOL EN EL CUERPO.
It is important to stress that since you children should tell your children about cigarette and alcohol what it causes in the body, the Colleges through preventive workshops, it gives them the possibility to first know their body, organs and functions but also that it can damage the functioning of these organs, explaining to them about the HIGED, PÁNCREAS, PULMONES, COLON ECT. By creating a consciousness of my body, and because I have to keep it. But not only school is enough, parents at home are the most important thing.
For our children it will not be easy the way of life, for people who come drunk from a party will see the father get violent with Mom because he is under the effects of liquor. Let Grandpa smoke a lot! So, to conclude: A body of a developing child should not receive and less at this age, no kind of liquor, is like giving a baby in his teapot beer or rum. What do you think happened to your liver? In addition to activating an addiction that in adolescence will be very difficult to control.
Schools support, it's a complement, but you guys at home. "It's the whole thing, in the EDUCATION of your children."
Try to surround them with good habits of food and healthy life, promote sport in them, this will help to keep them further from drugs and closer to healthy life.
¿POR QUÉ ES IMPORTANTE EL DIÁLOGO Y BRINDAR AMOR?
Vices, often start in young people who have grown weak, with little love of their parents, many punishments, or solitaries in the hands now of the virtual world that make them retarded and difficult to control, see the arrival of adolescence as an escape, as they have not experienced love in their homes, comprehensive dialogues, seek new experiences that generate in them joy, excitement and so on the day that a bad friend advises them and offers them to smoke, drink liquor in hiding and even worse to try all kinds of drugs that produce happiness or tranquillity that he does not get at home, he will have lost his child that day. Rescue him from this won't be easy.
That's why parents start from now on with their young children, but if you are a reader is the father or mother of a child who is already a teenager and is concerned about his / her rebellious, meet with his / her child, talk to him / her (do not yell at him / her), listen to him (do not demand him / her), try to understand him / her and ask for forgiveness in case the relationship between you as parents and your child has already been very contaminated for several years ago with cries, punishments, blows. Tell him that you are willing to start a new relationship with your child different but they must respect each other. Many times seeking help is important professionals like Psychologists can guide them.
